Click on a photo to see a larger version and more comments. Video available at “Waiting for the Hookup”.
Lansing Family
You can move through this site and through albums on this site by clicking on the pop-up menus above (for example, “Photo Album 2012”) or by clicking on the forward “>” or backward “<“ arrowheads at the top of a photo display.
In early January Jeremy and Jess met with the Stanford Medical Bone Marrow Transplant Team (BMT). Here is what Jeremy wrote:
"If the initial diagnosis was like being hit by a fast moving train then meeting with the BMT team was like being hit by a slow moving train. Yay. Following the meetings both Jess and I felt a very clear sense of being overwhelmed. I'll lay out what we learned about the transplant process as best as I can. But, before I regurgitate a linear plan that probably won't be linear I feel it necessary to comment on how Jess and I feel that there isn't a "fix" for our feeling overwhelmed. Although there isn't a fix there is plenty of work to be done. The work is "one day at a time;" the work is sitting with the unknown; the work is feeling the suffering; the work is letting go; the work is grieving the loss of being together; the work is seeing the good and the bad; the work is taking care of oneself; the work is being vulnerable; and the work is accepting help.”
The process they will go through will take 9-12 months, best case scenario. It includes treatments and LOTS of recovery time.
Click on a photo to see a larger version and more comments. Video available at “Waiting for the Hookup”.